Self Psychology
A psychoanalytic theory developed by Heinz Kohut emphasizing the development of the self through empathic relationships and mirroring.
Self Psychology emphasizes empathy over interpretation, selfobject needs over drives, and the development of the self over instinctual conflicts.
Selfobject
A person or function that supports the cohesion, stability, or vitality of the self; experienced as part of the self rather than as a separate individual.
Empathy
The primary tool of understanding in Self Psychology; accurate emotional attunement to another’s inner experience.
Mirroring Selfobject Need
The need to be validated, admired, and recognized by important others to build self-esteem.
Idealizing Selfobject Need
The need to merge with or look up to strong, calm, admirable figures to gain stability and strength.
Twinship (Alter-Ego) Selfobject Need
The need to feel likeness or belonging with others who are similar, creating a sense of connectedness and normalcy.
Transmuting Internalization
The gradual process by which selfobject functions are internalized, leading to self-soothing and mature self-regulation.
Self Cohesion
A sense of wholeness, continuity, and stability within one’s identity.
Fragmentation
A breakdown of the self’s cohesion, often due to empathic failures or loss of key selfobjects.
Nuclear Self
The central, enduring core of the self that develops from consistent empathic responses in early life.
Grandiose Self
An early developmental structure expressing the child’s need for admiration and a sense of greatness.
Idealized Parental Imago
An early image of the all-powerful, calm caregiver that the child idealizes for security and direction.
Selfobject Transference
The recreation in therapy of early selfobject needs through mirroring, idealizing, or twinship dynamics with the therapist.
Optimal Frustration
The experience of small, manageable empathic failures that foster growth and internalization of selfobject functions.
Empathic Failure
A disruption in attunement that, if too severe, leads to fragmentation rather than growth.
Cohesive Self
A mature, resilient self that maintains inner harmony and realistic ambitions.
Therapeutic Empathy
The therapist’s consistent attunement to the client’s subjective world, facilitating repair of early empathic injuries.
Narcissistic Injury
A blow to the self’s cohesion resulting from lack of validation or excessive criticism.
Selfobject Function of the Therapist
The therapist temporarily provides mirroring, idealizing, or twinship experiences to restore self cohesion.
Transformation of Narcissism
The healthy evolution of narcissism from immature self-centeredness to mature self-esteem and empathy for others.