Survival Stances
(Satir)
Satir model offers a clinician of any theoretical orientation an efficient and effective means of conceptualizing how best to communicate and interact with a client. Satir describes four communication survival or coping stances: placator, blamer, superreasonable, and irrelevant.
Placating
(Survival Stance)
The person manages interpersonal stress by recognizing the needs of others and the context but not the self.
Blaming
(Satir)
The inverse of placators, the person manages interpersonal stress by recognizing the needs of self and the context but not others.
Superreasonable
(Satir Family Therapy)
The person manages interpersonal stress by recognizing contextual rules but not more subjective needs of self and others.
Irrelevant
(Satir Family Therapy)
This person manages interpersonal stress by not acknowledging contextual demands, personal needs, or the needs of others.
Congruent
(Satir Family Therapy)
A person using this stance is able to simultaneously honor the needs of self and respect the needs of others while responding appropriately to context.
4 Primary Assumptions
(Satir Family Therapy)
4 Core Family Dynamics that Create Pathology
(Satir Family Therapy)
Family Roles
(Satir Family Therapy)
Each person’s role is assessed in the family system to understand the function of the problem. Family roles:
Family Life Fact Chronology
(Satir Family Therapy)
A timeline that includes the major events in an individual’s or family’s life:
Survival Triad
(Satir Family Therapy)
The emotional and nurturing relationships between each child, mother, and father. This should serve as a nurturing system for the child, when the child is experiencing difficulty, the therapist considers how the nurturing function of these relationships can be improved.
6 Levels of Experience
(Satir Family Therapy)
Practitioners use these to help clients transform their feelings about feelings to make lasting change.
The six levels of experience are as follows:
Self-worth/Self-esteem
(Satir Family Therapy)
In Satir Family Therapy, it is more useful to consider the specific aspects of the self that a client values and the aspects of which he or she is ashamed.
As self-compassion and self-worth rise, people become more realistic and tolerant of their own and others’ weaknesses while realistically assigning and assuming responsibility for their actions.
Therapists’ Use of Self
(Satir Family Therapy)
Therapists being authentically who they are, is one of the most essential interventions in Satir’s approach.
Therapists provide a role model for how to communicate congruently and also show the effects of increased self-actualization.
Making Contact
(Satir Family Therapy)
Refers to a series of connections both within the therapist and between the therapist and the client. Making contact involves the following:
6 Stages of Change in Satir Family Therapy
(Satir Family Therapy)
The six-stage model describes how the therapy process helps families move toward a second-order change in the family structure:
Family Sculpting
(Satir Family Therapy)
Involves putting family members in physical positions that represent how the “sculptor” sees each person’s role and emotional processes in the family. This intervention bypasses rational thinking and enables clients to directly engage the family’s emotional processes.
Ingredients of Interaction
(Satir Family Therapy)
The foundation for all other interventions, the therapist helps clients identify the following:
Communication Coaching/Role Play
(Satir Family Therapy)
Coaching clients in how to have authentic, congruent communication in session, involves the “ingredients of an interaction” combined with specific communication coaching strategies.When a person had trouble communicating congruently and reverted to a survival stance, Satir interrupted the conversation and suggested how to rephrase the statement or how to make the client’s nonverbal communications more congruent.
Touch
(Satir Family Therapy)
Satir used this in therapy to initially connect with clients and to encourage and reassure them when they were practicing new ways of communicating.
Family Reconstruction & Parts Party
(Satir Family Therapy)
Used to allow clients to explore unresolved family issues and life events in the safety of the group setting.
Congruent Communication
(Satir Family Therapy)
The ability to communicate authentically while responding to the needs of both self and others that involves verbal and non-verbal communication aligning.
The overarching goal of therapy is to help the family develop ways for all members to communicate so that the system’s homeostasis no longer needs the initial symptoms (problems) to maintain balance.